Fredrick Amos Wagner's Obituary
Lt. Col Fredrick Wagner USAF Ret. “Skip”
Fredrick Amos Wagner, 82, passed peacefully in his home surrounded by loved ones on March 1, 2019.
He was the first born son to Frederick Jacob and Josephine Elizabeth (Amos) Wagner, on December 4, 1936 in Kenosha, Wisconsin.
He was preceded in death by his parents named above, his wife, Sallie Furey Wagner, children Laurel Jean Wagner, Fredrick Raymond Wagner and William Brian Wagner, grandson Calvin Hershberger and daughter-in-law Colleen Denham.
He is survived by his siblings Conard (Elaine) Wagner and Mary Jo (Mark) Altom; Daughter Debra (Jim) Paladino; Children Eddie (Lynne) Denham, Kevin Denham, Barry (Colleen) Denham, Michael (Sharon Larson) Denham, Michele (Karl) Martel, Maureen (Don) Debone; Daughter in law Pat Wagner; Two nephews, one niece, ten grandchildren and nine great grandchildren whom he loved dearly. He is also survived by his friend and mother of his children, Gretchen Nelson Wagner; many friends, comrades and fellow servicemen.
Enlisted in the Air Force in January 1956, he went to officers Training school and became a 2nd Lieutenant on his son Billy’s birthday, Sept. 25, 1962. He climbed the ranks and retired as Lieutenant Colonel in 1986. He was decorated with the Bronze Star Medal, a Meritorious service medal with 2 oak leaf clusters, the Air Force Outstanding Unit Award with Valor and 3 Oak Leaf Clusters, the Air Force Organizational Excellence Award, the Army Good Conduct Medal with 2 Bronze Loops, the National Defense Service Medal, the Vietnam Service Medal with 3 Bronze Service Stars, and the Humanitarian Service Medal. He also was awarded Air Force Longevity Service Ribbon with 1 silver and 1 bronze oak leaf cluster, Small Arms Expert Marksmanship Ribbon, Republic Of Vietnam Gallantry Cross with Palm, and Republic of Vietnam Campaign Medal.
After retiring from the Air Force, and contributing fourteen years in computer management he officially retired in 2000 and became a full-time gentleman of leisure who enjoyed travel, art, golf, fishing, sharp-shooting, and cooking. A Silver Life Master in bridge and chili cook-off champion, he was also an enthusiast of food, wine, and racing. He was an endless source of knowledge on the above topics as well as many unnamed, and would generously share his wisdom with all. He will be remembered for his love of life and all the pleasures it offers.
A memorial to celebrate his life will be held at 10 a.m. on Wednesday March 6, 2019 at Trader Funeral Home, 12 Lotus St. Dover, DE 19901. A dignified military service with honors will be held at a future date with announcement to follow. In lieu of flowers, the family respectfully requests that donations be made in his honor to the cancer research foundation of your choice.
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